Just play the whole damn game and decide to have fun.

Have you every got a hole-in-one?

You would agree with me then, that rarely in life do we sink it first try.

The reality: life is made up of repeated failures.

 

Sometimes we aim intentionally… and fail.

Sometimes we try really hard and focus really strongly… and fail.

Sometimes we try trick shots… and fail.

Sometimes we just whack at it to see what happens… and fail.



Then one day, seemingly out of nowhere, it goes in!

 

Frustration comes when we think 

  • "I should have got it in one shot"

  • "I shouldn't fail this much."

  • "I should have learnt by now."

  • "Other people do it easy."

 

On top of all that frustration, when we DO get it in, we tell ourselves it was a fluke! What?! What about all the time and effort you put into failing?? You forget about that, don't ya?


The take away point is this:

- Failing is part of the game.

- Sinking it is part of the game.

- So just play the whole damn game and decide to have fun along the way.

(Filming yourself doing it is optional)

Steph


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